It is official as the nice man delivers yet another package to my house–I am married to the online shopping lady except she is a man. A man who never liked shopping before. As a woman of a certain age I have seen my hubby of many years have many habits, and this one is one that I could never imagined he would have.
When he had to fill out forms and send them in he wouldn’t order a lot–it took time. The kids and I would get a few crazy gifts, you know the kind that don’t look anything like the picture. The kind that are supposed to be just as good as the nationally known product.
But lo and behold he is now kind of sort of computer literate–he discovered the internet. We finally got him to stop opening all of the email he receives, and printing off all of the crazy information that is out there. He now shops.
You know that lady that buys the purse in all 16 colors, 13 sizes and 14 materials all of which are fake–that’s him. Need something to help you with a flat tire, ward off attackers, look like a diamond, ruby and/or emerald, whiten your teeth, stretch your shoes, shrink your shoes, kill mosquitoes, and so much more? We have it.
The delivery people and the postal service know us. In fact I’ve told them to stop coming to my house. I run to the door as soon as they ring the bell because there is no need to sign for it, they just ring, drop and go.
The good news is that I’m going to have a great garage sale. Remember “thisisyourbestyear“. What’s one man’s junk is another one’s treasure–yeah right.
Each ornament on my Christmas tree has a special meaning to me, and if truth be told to my family too. Every year my friends change the look of their tree–changing color schemes and decorations. My oldest daughter’s tree is one with every ornament placed perfectly, and the color of the season is one that she has stressed over since last Christmas.
They call my tree, the hamdascam tree which is their made up terminology meaning hodgepodge. My oldest relegates her son’s decorations that he has painstakingly made at school to my tree, but we both love it.
The decorations on my tree are some of my children’s favorites. They may talk about them, but each year they look for “their” ornament–the ones they made in school. It is theirs and they must put it on the tree. When our youngest was in the Coast Guard, she never made it home for Christmas day, but I always took a picture, putting her ornament on the tree. She graduated college on December 23, and on December 24 we picked out a tree (the man gave it to us) and we decorated our hodgepodge tree on Christmas Eve with my decorations that go back to 1978.
The decorations are not only my children’s and grandchildren, they are my parents. My mom taught third grade, and although it has faded with time I have one that her class gave her in 1988. She loved teaching the third grade, and it makes me smile and warms my heart when I see it. The red birds on the tree go back to 1978, and they are still flying high.
There are paper decorations that can no longer be hung so we just kind of set them up in the tree. There are those with school pictures, beautiful angels and even the Dallas Cowboys and President Obama and Vice President Biden make my tree.
There are a few that have lost a limb or two over the years, and some that we just lay around the tree, but they are all loved by my family and me. They remind me of Christmas past all the way back to Della Lane in Longview, Texas.
As Stevie Wonder would sing “one little Christmas tree”… To some it is a hodgepodge, but to me it’s all about family. Have a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanzaa and Happy Holidays–remember “thisisyourbestyear”.
I finally decided to do it. It wasn’t easy to let it go, but somewhere deep down inside I knew it was time.
India Arie told me that I was not my hair, but did I believe her? I can remember to the date that my hair color changed from dark brown to red. It was about the week after I graduated from high school. I know this because my mother and I had discussed it for what seemed liked years. Back then my Aunt Bonnie and my mother both colored their hair, and since I wanted to be them, I wanted to color mine. My mother said that after high school graduation I could do just that. From that week on my hair was some variety of red. Most of the time I colored it a medium red, but occasionally it got a little light. I was never fond of the darker shades, but I loved my red hair.
After I informed my daughters that I was going to stop coloring my hair, my youngest daughter suggested that I go natural too. I told her one step at a time, and letting the silver shine through was the first step. When the gray started to come in, I can honestly say I really didn’t remember what I looked like with my natural hair color. It made laugh when my hubby told me he married a redhead, and I reminded him that I married a man with an afro–a big afro, and he was now sporting a ball head.
I’m not going to say I will never color my hair again–I am a woman of a certain age, and I can change my mind. For now I have decided to let the silver shine through. Who knows natural and blonde may be my next adventure. Besides I can be a redhead whenever I want–I have enough alternative hair (wigs) to be almost every shade of red they make.
Remember “thisisyourbestyear”, you are not your hair.
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The article below is an interesting article on how much the average household nearing retirement has in savings for the retirement years. How much do you have in your retirement account?
Take a look at the article written by Austin Smith for Motley Fool. Can you really retire comfortably?
Remember “thisisyourbestyear”. Save and invest for a comfortable retirement.
The Modern Art Museum of Fort Worth has just announced two great dates for the fantastic “First Friday” series. They’ve always been great, and these two will be even better. Mark your calendar for December 2, 2016 and January 6, 2017. The Modern has joined forces with Shipping & Receiving (the Near Southside music and night-life venue) to showcase great local musicians in the grand lobby from 6 to 11 pm on these dates.
On these two dates you can explore the outstanding KAWS, WHERE THE END STARTS with extended, late-night hours and also enjoy great music, cocktails and food. You can also enjoy a full menu in Café Modern.
The price is $10 and does include gallery admission. Modern members and Star-Telegram Press Pass holders will get free admission. These dates will go fast, you can get tickets at Shipping and Receiving. You can also join the Modern as a member at joining the Modern.
There will also be a 20 minute docent led tour of the galleries at 6:30 pm. The bands playing are: December 2–The Burning Hotels and January 6–ISHI and Sudie.
For more about this event and others at the Modern which includes the schedule of the films of the Magnolia at the Modern films, visit The Modern.
Can’t make it to Fort Worth, Texas–check your local area for programs. They are out there, and remember “thisisyourbestyear” . There is even room to dance!
My favorite season is Fall. I absolutely love being outside during this time of year and seeing all the beauty God has created. Today my college roommate and I decided to stroll through the Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden with a tour of the DeGolyer House. The coolness of the weather, the brightness of the sunshine and friendship made it simple and beautiful.
Remember “thisisyourbestyear”. Enjoy the beauty of nature and friendships.
I must confess, that I could do rich very well. I would be very nice to the people who worked for me–the housekeeper, landscaper (yes, I would have someone to plant the pretty flowers), the driver, the one who purchases the groceries, everyone. But since it does not seem to be in the cards that I will ever be wealthy, I have decided that I deserve some help some of the time.
You can ask anyone who knows me, and they will tell you that I am a very good cook. When my children were young, I tried everything and had fun doing it. Then one day they said the dreaded words “I don’t like that”. Even then it was still fun, and I still enjoyed it. As time has gone on, I have fallen in love with cooking shows. If you ever watch the movie “Chef”, I even made his pasta dish after I went grocery shopping the following day.
There in part lies part of the problem that I face when it comes to cooking now. There are basically three problems that make cooking unpleasant for me now.
- Cooking the same thing time and time again. It is easy to do. It is just a habit that is hard to break and it makes everyone happy.
- Grocery shopping is a job in itself. When you do find a new recipe that you like, you have to go to the grocery store because there is a spice that it calls for, and you don’t have it. Oh you can leave it out–it’s only a teaspoon, but that teaspoon matters. Then there are the questions, do I buy regular apples or organic apples? What makes Central Market organic apples cost so much more than Walmart organic apples? Are they even organic or is that just a fancy way to say pay more?
- Cooking for two is so much harder than cooking for four. There are recipes that are for two, but most are for at least a family of four.
I found the not so perfect solution to all three concerns. I found *Blue Apron or my oldest daughter found it. It does work. First of all I noticed that she and my favorite son-in-law had lost weight. She informed me that Blue Apron was portion controlled, and it did fill you up. More importantly to me was the fact that all of the ingredients come with it, and the cost is reasonable.
I have enjoyed cooking new recipes for my hubby and myself, and even the girls like it. I love the sides that come with it more than anything. They are quick and easy. The sides use ingredients that I usually have, but have never thought about putting together. My daughter wishes they would go one step further by chopping the ingredients too–that doesn’t bother me. The meals are very tasty and the presentation is great too. The recipes are easy to follow–they have pictures to aid in this. I have enjoyed every one of the meals with a few things that I would tweek if I did them again.
Since I can’t hire a chef, Blue Apron has become my personal chef, and it is worth it. I am not cooking the same things over and over and even going to the grocery store is more enjoyable.
*Blue Apron is not the only meal delivery service, I have friends who use others including Home Chef, Hello Fresh and Plated. You might want to give one of them a try. You do not have to receive a shipment every week, and there are vegetarian meals to choose from.
Everyone deserves a little help. Remember “thisisyourbestyear”. Bon appetit!
The amazing Texas Conference for Women in Austin, Texas on November 15, 2016 is officially sold out.
As luck would have it, there may be a way to get tickets to attend this sold out event. You can put your name on a list to grab tickets if they become available. If you want to hear great speakers, be inspired, attend wonderful workshops, network with women who are on the move and so much more, you need to try as hard as possible to attend this event. To try for tickets click please let me get a ticket. Hope you are lucky! Remember “thisisyourbestyear”.