Who would have thought that becoming a grandparent could be so enjoyable? From the time that little bundle of joy is put in your arms you find yourself on cloud nine. The love you feel for this tiny person swells up more each time you see them.
Grandparenting has always been special to those that were fortunate enough to know and love their grandparents. My paternal grandparents lived less than 15 minutes from our house, and my material grandparents lived about an hour away so grandparents were always present.
The ones that lived closer took us to piano lessons on Saturday, picked us up for Sunday School, and had homemade delicious snacks after school. You know things like hamburgers, french fries, cake, pie–do I need to go on. Those were special times that even now bring a smile to my heart. The love I had for my grandparents only came in second to my parents.
So when I heard that we would become grandparents 9 years ago I was excited. I could just image combing the little girls hair, putting in pretty bows, buying cute little dresses, dolls and more. Then they told us they were going to give us a grandson. I told them to give him back because we didn’t do boys–just girls. We now do boys.
Who would know that Joseph Foster II better known as Joey to us, and JoJo to his parents and aunt would steal our hearts. I can remember when he was not even walking, and the Dallas Cowboys had an open practice at the stadium–my sister and I picked him up from the sitter and took him to the practice. We were so excited telling his parents about our outing. Even to this day I know that he enjoyed looking at the big screen.
His aunt and I taught him how to fly a kite when he was about three. Somehow he seemed to always find the one power line, but it was fun. We decided to make a cake and decorate for his moms birthday. He used this mixer, decorated the cake and the table.
Even when he was younger and just starting to walk we took him home to Longview to visit our neighbors. We stopped to have our favorite burger, and he threw so many fries on the floor that we asked the manager for the broom to clean up. He got a way with things that his mom and aunt could never have done.
No I don’t see him every day, but when I see him, I try to always make it special for both of us. This summer I ask him to write me a letter each week telling me about his week. I love my updates.
Does he like seeing his grandparents all of the time–of course not, but hopefully the memories that we make will mean just as much to him as they do to me. He knows that his Paw Paw and Honey love him unconditionally.
Remember “thisisyourbestyear”. You can love your grandchildren, give them love and send them home to be with their parents. Grandparents need rest after visits. Enjoy your day.
HAPPY GRANDPARENTS DAY!
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